When we realize that Hurt People, Hurt People we then learn not to take each experience personal.
"The minute you learn to respect and see both sides of the coin as equally good, you can enjoy both. You never
hate anything. It is only a matter of your understanding and acceptance. Then you enjoy everything in life.
Everything! There is nothing that is terrible, bad or negative in this life (just lessons to gleam).
Let us have the light of understanding. Accept things as they are, people as they are. Don't demand anything.
Don't put conditions: "Only when you do this does it prove that you love me." Rise above all this. Our attitude,
our approach, our love should be (without judgement) unconditional.
Simply accept people for what they are, as they are. Learn to love everyone and everyone will love you, no
doubt. Then, life is worth living. The world becomes a heaven on earth for you" - by Sri Swami Satchidananda
However, this does not mean you must align yourself with people who continually cause you grief.
While working with other recovering addicts; I often quote page 449 of the Alcoholics Anonymous Big
Book;
Acceptance
“When I stopped living in the problem and began living in the solution, the problem went away.
Acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person,
place, thing or situation, some fact of my life - unacceptable to me, then I can find no serenity until I accept that
person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in creation by mistake! Unless I accept life completely on life’s terms, I ‘will
not be content with my life’ cannot be happy.
I must concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in
me and my attitudes.
We are all (fragments of the same creation) children of God and all have a right to be here.
I judged myself by my intentions, while the world was judging me by my actions.”
When I focus on what’s GOOD today, I have a GOOD day, and when I focus on what’s bad, I have a bad day.
(The first thought) God did not create the world only for me."
THE HIGHER MY EXPECTATIONS, THE LOWER MY SERENITY
When we expect others to behave the way that we wish them to, we not only cause grief for ourselves, but for
those around us. Therefore, allow people to behave however they choose to behave. Accept others as they are,
and however they behave. Do not expect a thank you when you do kind or helpful things for others, expect
others are going to do whatever they wish and not what you wish for them to do.
If their way stops working to gain what they desire, they may ask you why their way is not working. Then, and only
then has your opinion been invited. If you do not like the way a person behaves, decide what it is they desire of
you and simply do not give it to them as their reward.
The Serenity Prayer;
"God (as you understand such) grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change. Give me the
courage to change the things I can, and give me the wisdom to know the difference."
Many individuals have found that the key to healing the spirit locked within the physical universe is to work
with a frequently mentioned concept within the Edger Cayce material: "Spirit is the life, mind is the builder, and
the physical is the result.
In order to accomplish this first take a sheet of paper and draw three columns. Label the first, "My Spiritual Ideal";
label the second, "My Mental Attitudes"; and label the third, "My Physical Activities." Although we're encouraged
to choose a challenging spiritual ideal, it's recommended that the spiritual ideal we choose be something we can
understand, work with, and see progressively manifesting in our lives.
Ultimately, a spiritual ideal is the highest "spiritual" quality or attainment that we could hope to have motivating us
in our lives right now. For some, this might be the pattern set by Jesus, for others it might be a quality such as
"love." In order to really begin working with ideals, however, we should choose that quality or attribute that is
currently missing or lacking in our own life in our relationships with others.
For example, perhaps we may find that we need to be more "patient" or more "forgiving" or more "understanding"
in our interaction with other people. Ideals grow and change as we do, so it's important to pick something with
which we can really begin to work.
For this exercise, let's say that our spiritual ideal is currently going to be "forgiveness," so forgiveness would be
written under the first column labeled, "My Spiritual Ideal."
Under the second column, we need to begin listing "My Mental Attitudes," those attitudes which will help build that
spirit of forgiveness into our relationships with others and with ourselves. Perhaps we'll decide "compassion" is
an attitude we want to work toward in relation to a frustrating parent; maybe "openness" is the mental attitude we
want to begin holding in mind in regard to a child with whom we've been having difficulty; and possibly "patience"
best describes that attitude we need to use with ourselves.
Our ideals chart should list all the people in our lives with whom we need to exercise this spiritual ideal of
forgiveness plus the positive mental attitudes suggesting how we'll begin working with each one.
The third column is the most detailed. It's the place we can write out all those physical activities we'll begin doing
in relationship to specific individuals. "My Physical Activities" should simply reflect the mental attitudes we're
holding in relationship to our spiritual ideal. For example, in the case of ourselves and the mental attitude of
"patience," perhaps each of the following would be appropriate activities to help "build" that same attitude:
"Stop saying (or even thinking) 'I can't'", "make a list of every instance where I have been forgiven for
something," "begin praying that I will have the determined endurance to go forward," etc. Each attitude and
person should have next to it a list of multiple activities with which we'll be working. Our activities can map out
ways to bring this spiritual ideal into the material world.
We'll know that progress has been made with our spiritual ideal when the mental attitude on the ideals sheet
becomes our usual state of mind and the physical activity listed becomes our automatic and natural response. As
we really begin to work with ideals, making them a part of who we are, we can then choose a more challenging
direction, a brighter North Star toward which we can point our lives. The important thing is to work with our ideals,
for by working with them we'll discover what it is we need to be doing, and we'll no longer have to concern
ourselves with the timing."
Here are further thoughts to consider;
“Despite what "appears" to being going on in "the world at large," how loving and harmonious are your personal
relationships?
Remember that the world is your mirror. Casting back at you the reflection of that which you have projected into
it. How many arguments do you find yourself engaging in? Is there bitterness and acrimony within the ranks? Do
you look at others, and think about how you would like to change them? Or, do you love them, and accept them
as they are?
Loving and accepting someone, for who they are, is known as Unconditional Love (an unknown trait while in our
current fragmentation). Balancing compassion and wisdom appears to be part of our next phase of our
development. However, now Is a good time to get a head start. Now, loving and accepting someone as they are,
does not mean accepting abusive behavior. But, it does mean accepting the person and the person's behavior.
The behavior is not "who they are", the Soul within, is who they are.
The quality of your relationships, is an excellent mirror from which to gauge the quality of your output. Or, in
other words, that which you are creating. Do you look at a person and concentrate to a greater or lesser extent
upon the things that you dislike about them and wish would change, or the qualities that you like and admire in
them?
"Remember that we have said, that all thought, word, and deed, is creative. Therefore, you get back exactly what
you send out. So, when you send out the thought "Why is she so hard to live with? Why is he always behaving
like this?
Ask yourself, what exactly are you doing? Now focus here, as this is so obvious, you could miss it. And in fact,
most do.
Take away the "question" from your sentence, and essentially, you are saying: "She is so hard to live with". "He is
always behaving like this". Do you see what you are doing? Again remember that all thought is creative..
You have just created the very behaviour in that person, that you wish to change. Simply because you do not
understand the Law of Radiation and Attraction.
Now, try an experiment:
Take someone in your life, that you love, but sometimes have trouble getting along with. Think, about the
thoughts you have projected about that person. The Negative thoughts. Ask yourself, does the behavior that you
do not like in that person, in any way correspond to the thoughts you have been having about them? If you're
honest with yourself, it's a strong bet that it does.
Sure, they must have behaved that way in the first place, to make you notice that you didn't like it, but, we all
have off days sometimes. The more you focus on that behavior, the more you are going to see of it. It's just Life,
doing what it does, and conforming to your expectations about the way it will be for you.
Now, having recognized this, what will you do about it?
Simply notice your Negative thoughts as they arise, literally, "catch yourself" as you are having them. And then,
simply change your perspective. Focus instead, about the things you like about this person. How you love their
smile, the sound of their happy laughter; the way they do such and such nice thing, how helpful and loving they
can be. Keep putting those positive thoughts out. Persevere, as you may have a bit of negative work to undo
first, but just keep catching yourself, and focusing on the positive..
Then prepare yourself for an "almost magical" transformation of your circumstances.
Always monitor your thoughts, and pay attention to their Quality; because what you think about is directly related
to what you will see around you, and what Life will show you. It is the difference between conscious, and
subconscious Creation.” - Hidden_Hand @ http://www.illuminati-news.com/00363.html
Fear & Knowledge/Love; "Knowledge protects, ignorance endanger"s
Are the true foundations for all human emotions.
Fear provokes all the negative human emotions known. Therefore, if fear is allowed it becomes the driving
force in the human heart (is why Church Inc. created hell, in order to control your thought process). Fear can be,
if allowed to be, the destroyer of the soul, yet can also be the catalyst that allows change in thoughts and
behavior.
Whereas, knowledge is the healer of all.
According to the material found in The Law of One, it appears that traumas from past incarnations often spill
over into the next incarnation. Therefore, it appears that we are, not only in need of healing from this incarnation,
but also from previous incarnations, that only our subconscious mind is aware of.
If the spirit-self is out of balance, it causes blockage of the mind and the body systems. We often seek medical
treatments to relieve the symptoms caused, rather than seeking to balance in the energy field that is who we are,
rather than the illusion we think we are.
For some religion plays a key role to aid in the healing process, but here again, if our system is out-of-balance,
all the religion one can know is only going to aid us just so far, as religion can only feed the outside, rather than
the true spiritual man deep within.
If we better understand how this system works, how it is wired, we can then begin the healing process. Following
is a series of videos that helped me to better understand the natural laws that govern creation as described in
The Law of One material;
Vortex Energies
Video 1; Pyramid Energy and the Earth Grid Etheric fields
Video 2; Vibration and the Secret of Healing
Video 3; How the Human TACHYON light field works
Video 4; Medicine Wheel, Ley Lines and Obelisks
Video 5; The Star Of David - Earth Grid
Video 6; Mary Hardy, Photon Belt, Earth Grid
Video 7; Star Wars, Haarp, Cathars, Pope & BOL
Video 8; Tuning A Vortex and Earth Grid
Video 9; Creating The Holy Grail Vortex
Video 10; Crop Circles, Alchemy and Paris
Video 11; Homeopathic Remedies
It has been discovered; that humans have some 64 various genes. However, only around 21 of them are
currently active at this stage of our development (more may become active on or around 2012)
But why? What has happened? According to The Law of One and other related material, we are living in "The
Forgetting". Apparently, those who created our earth-suits (The Annunaki?) deactivated some of our DNA
receptors in order to control us.
Science has proven it, yet it may not have even realized it.
You were created in the image of the first to become conscious. You, therefore are a spirit being having a
confusing human experience. Your body contains primarily water, and water is a perfect conductor of energy.
Fear is a negative energy (low in its frequency) that moves rather slowly, but in a wide spectrum. Therefore, as it
runs along your gene corridor, it fires only on a few of your receptors. Whereas, knowledge (creates love
vibration) is a positive (higher frequency) energy that moves more rapidly and in a much tighter wave spectrum,
engaging more of your receptors along its path.
Resentments & Forgiveness;
We see how negative emotions not only make us physically sick, but they also separate us from the source of
our inner healer. All ancient text basically tell us that a spirit harvest "rapture to those seeking salvation outside
of themselves) is about to take place. Therefore, it is time for us all to make sure we are not holding resentments
towards anyone.
When we talk with one whom we have a negative history with, do we reflect, do we project our past negative
feelings onto that person in our thoughts or behaviors? Are we continuing to blame that person for all of our
woes and disappointments, going as far as mentally blaming them for world hunger, and not even realizing it?
Are we always testing the waters with that person, always keeping an eye out for a shark within them? If so, we
have not forgiven that person. In doing so that shark will come simply because we are hoping, almost expecting
the shark within them because we want that shark to come giving us the permission we require to bite back.
This is why resentments always leads us to hatred, and hatred is what kills the whole person, inside and out.
If we are looking for someone to blame, we can always find someone. Yet when we are allowed the big picture
here we may very well discover that the experiences we asked for before returning to our 3D experience, are the
experiences we received. Therefore, the one to blame is our own self.
You have heard it said, "Judge not, and you shall not be judged."
I wish to elaborate on this; It appears that the harshest judgement one can place on oneself is to judge oneself
better than another. For none of us have yet the discernment needed to see the bigger picture. When the
bigger picture is allowed one may very well see oneself as one with all others, yet each playing his own separate
role as co-creator knowing Itself.
Therefore, judge not another, as you are only judging yourself. A rather foolish task, at best.
Our perception of our life;
"Can take different forms. We can see life as a blessing or a curse, as difficult or easy, as fun or a struggle. We
hope for the good to continue indefinitely and for the difficult times to pass as quickly as possible. Because of
our tendency is to look at life from the point of what is happening and focus on the events we often miss the
bigger picture, which is how each event and person contributes to the whole. In essence we look at what is
happening in terms of the past instead of how it contributes to a new and different aspect of our ever-changing
reality.
Our spiritual journey is about transformation, about changing what we know and how we do things. It is about
creating something new and different, about creating a new paradigm instead of fixing the old one.
There was a time when changing our life situation or who we were was close to impossible. We were ruled by
destiny, not by possibility. A person was born into a certain place in their life and they could never hope to be
different. So a person born into a family of farmers would never be anything but a farmer. Or one born into a
family of merchants would become a merchant. While we have progressed socially, it has taken some time for
our minds and perceptions to catch up to the possibility of the opportunities that are available to us. We know
that we can do whatever we want but do we really believe it? Sometimes it takes a transforming event to show us
that and those events happen in such a way that we can see them as confirmation of our inability instead of our
potential.
A transforming event occurs when a change is forced upon us and we must re-assess our choices and our
possibilities. This could manifest as the loss of a job, relationship or life situation that we had assumed would be
around until we were ready to let it go. Or the opportunity for transformation may appear in the form of a
situation that we have not wanted to deal with for a long time and we are suddenly forced to face it. This is
transformation at work, an opportunity for us to create a new form for our reality, a new way of being. What we
do with that information will define whether transformation and change can occur or whether we will continue on
the same path.
A key to working with transformation is how much we believe in, honor and love ourselves. Whether we believe
that we deserve the best and highest good determines how we perceive the situation that has suddenly
appeared before us. Do we see a new beginning or yet another crisis that we must somehow manage? Do we
try to fit the change into our current reality or are we aware of other opportunities? As with any aspect of our
reality, what we allow ourselves to see determines the energy that we will work with.
Transforming events do not happen by accident. They occur when we, either consciously or unconsciously,
create them. Our unconscious desires for more peace, joy and happiness can bring change into our life, even if
we are afraid of those changes on a conscious level. These urges can be so strong that our heart will step in
when our mind is in denial and bring the changes about for us. The greater our dissatisfaction with where we
are in life, the greater is our request for change. The greater our fear of transformation the more difficult the
process will be for us. Joy is our natural state of being and anything that has to occur to get us there will happen.
Part of our spiritual journey is to learn to live in the joy, peace and unconditional love that is our natural spiritual
state of being. Misery is not the human condition, we just think that it is. As we commit to our spiritual path
reconnecting to the energy of joy is another task that we are charged with. Whether we consciously agree to it
or not, the Universe will bring to our attention every aspect of our reality that is in conflict with this natural state
of being and the transforming events that will allow us to change them.
If we remember that we have complete control over every aspect of our reality then we can make self-affirming
choices when faced with events whose purpose is to help us change our reality. If not, then we see these events
as confirmation of our powerlessness and feel helpless. We are supposed to be living ‘in joy’ all of the time. And
we will have opportunities to change anything that does not resonate at that frequency. Transforming events
can be magical, exciting times when we step into our power and create the life we have been wishing for. Use
the energy of transformation in this way and change will become your sidekick instead of your enemy and your
journey will be miraculous, fun and joyful." - Unknown
Enjoy your journey,
Namasté
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