The Path to Peace

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Urkiola, the path to heaven.
1. Ask God for the strength to become honest with yourself and others.

2. Admit that you are mortally wounded, thus powerless to heal yourself.

3. Admit only a loving Creator could heal your wounds and the harms done.

4. Admit to another that your wounds have caused harm to others.

5. Admit only a loving Creator encouraged you to make these admissions.

6. Ask God to reveal each wound and the harm it has caused others.

7. Make a list of all those harmed by your wounds.
8.Make amends for your harms without expecting others to make amends.

9.Having been allowed this gift, know that your Creator is mindful of you,
and will continue chastening you to pour His love out upon you.

10. Take this message to others.

Allow this process to begin by placing your spiritual knees on the earth and your
willing heart in the heavens.

"Those who refuse to forgive another, will not discover the art of forgiveness, but will
drag their chain of resentment all the days of their lives" - Travis Knight
Since so many of our viewers come here we felt it was important to place some key info on this page. In my
years of working in the field of addiction recovery I have been privy to all of the various schools of thought
regarding various treatment models. There truly are as many various treatment options as there are various
types of individuals.

This has caused me to realize that because all people are as different as the finger prints that make up our
individual personalities, there is no certain program that works best for all people. I have known of people who
have graduated from as many as seventeen different treatment programs, who now live drug free, but whose
lifestyles leave much to be desired.

Recovery is
only going to work for the addict who wishes for treatment to work. Period! Not to say that once
some types of individuals, when forced into recovery, will not eventually take to the idea of recovery, but
rather, for most it must be a personal choice.

We believe that the best way for a family member or other loved ones, to help the addict become willing, is to
inform the addict that their addiction is harming their loved ones. If the loved ones can rally together to cut off
all the addicts possible resources such as family, friends, bank accounts, and all co-dependents from all
sources, the addict is then given a reason to take stock of their own life. Keeping in mind that if the addict is
allowed one little hole to escape through, they will find it!

Here is a program option for anyone who is suffering from an addiction -
Below are more options, but again, it is up to the addict to get sick and tiered of their lifestyle before recovery
can take hold. Here is another view of recovery that anyone hoping to help a loved one recover must first
consider -
Rational Recovery (Website HERE)

I must add two points that I feel are important to realize. One; religion does not make men willing to get right
with their Creator, only a man's Creator is willing to allow a willing man to get right with himself, and without
God's help, it is not go'n happ'n.

The second thought that I must share for those who care; Our church has a great recovery center that we
proudly support. However, my biggest gripe with their system is the fact that they expect their clients to stop
smoking cigarettes before they are allowed on the recovery centers property.

Now we all realize that tobacco is harmful, however, most people don't sale their bodies, rob, or kill just to
smoke cigarettes. Allow them to smoke while they are in recovery from major mind altering drugs such as
alcohol. They are going to be put to the emotional press for the first few weeks, and a few smokes a day is
going to give them something to help them endure. A small out if you will just to get them to the next day.
Please do not have unrealistic expectations of your loved ones. When they are ready to quite smoking, they
will.

One day, one drug at a time. People who quit everything all at once, have a higher chance of relapsing than
those who take it one day, one drug at a time. Detoxing the brain is a process, not an event.
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