The Path to Peace

Seek The Christ within,
rather than without.

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1. Ask for the strength to become honest with yourself and others.

2. Forgive all those who have harmed you.

3. Admit that your wounds have harmed others.

4. Forgive yourself.

5. Make a list of all those harmed by your wounds.

6. Make amends for your harms without expecting others to make amends.

7. Take this message to others;

Judge not your brother, for you only judge yourself, as we are one with The One

We are each members of a production of Creator knowing Itself. Therefore, do not
take it personal, it is not about individualism, but rather is about unity.


Those who refuse to forgive another, will not discover the art of forgiveness, but will
drag their chain of resentment all the days of their lives.

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Since so many of my viewers come here I felt it was important to place some key info on this page. In my
years of working in the field of addiction recovery I have been privy to all of the various schools of thought
regarding various treatment models. There truly are as many various treatment options as there are various
types of individuals.

This has caused me to realize that because all people are as different as the finger prints that make up our
individual personalities, there is no certain program that works best for all people. I have known of people who
have graduated from as many as seventeen different treatment programs, who now live drug free, but whose
lifestyles leave much to be desired.

Recovery is
only going to work for the addict who wishes for treatment to work. Period! Not to say that once
some types of individuals, when forced into recovery, will not eventually take to the idea of recovery, but
rather for most it must be a personal choice.

I believe that the best way for a family member, or other loved one to help the addict become willing is to
inform the addict that their addiction is harming their loved ones. If the loved ones can rally together to cut off
all the addicts possible resources such as family, friends, bank accounts, and all co-dependents from all
sources, the addict is then given a reason to take stock of their own life. Keeping in mind that if the addict is
allowed one little hole to escape through, they will find it!

Here is a program option for anyone who is suffering from an addiction -

Below are more options, but again, it is up to the addict to get sick and tiered of their lifestyle before
recovery can take hold. Here is another view of recovery that anyone hoping to help a loved one recover
must first consider -
Rational Recovery (Website HERE)

I must add two points that I feel are important to realize. One; religion does not make men willing to get right. A
man must first become willing to get right with himself, as free-will must be upheld.

The second thought that I must share for those who care; My former church group has a great recovery
program. However, my biggest gripe with the system is the fact that they expect their clients to stop smoking
cigarettes before they are allowed on the recovery centers property.

Now we all realize that tobacco is harmful, however, most people don't sale their bodies, rob, or kill just to
smoke cigarettes. Allow them to smoke while they are in recovery from major mind altering drugs such as
alcohol. They are going to be put to the emotional press for the first few weeks, and a few smokes a day is
going to give them something to help them endure. A small out if you will just to get them to the next day.
Please do not have unrealistic expectations of your loved ones. When they are ready to quite smoking, they
will.

One day, one drug at a time. People who quit everything all at once have a much higher chance of relapsing
than those who take it one day, one drug at a time. Detoxing the brain is a process, not an event.
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