Sexual Addiction

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Pornography Addiction

All men are perverts, those that claim otherwise, are also liars.

The only shame with any addiction, is not getting help.

A recent survey performed on 1,000 professing Christian men and women,
found that 50% of the men and 20% of the women surveyed were addicted
to pornography.
(Link to an article at Independent American Party HERE)

If you feel that you are able to control your viewing of porn, then take this
assessment to see who is controlling who  -  
Sexual Addiction Test  (HERE)

Like any addiction, sex becomes the drug to relieve stress, to cut the edge
of emotional pain, often playing a self- nurturing role.

Like the self-mutilator who cuts the pain out, the true sex addict takes no
real pleasure in the actual sexual act, but rather feels great shame
afterwards, confusing lust with love.

Just as with any addiction, the sex addict’s addiction must grow more
heinous in order to retain the same high. Therefore, the behavior
progressively gets more risky.

By allowing the medias to bombard us with sexually explicit images, our group consciousness is becoming
seared. With the advent of the computer screen, we now have a one way mirror to hide ourselves behind,
therefore,
cyber-sex has become an epidemic (Website HERE)

Like rabid dogs, many have begun to lose their minds, throwing ethical hygiene and caution to the wind.

Mind Management

A man reaps what he sows." Therefore, controlling the thoughts that lead to the desires should be one of his top
priorities. Our minds are like a computer, it only knows the data we feed it. Dr. Hans Selye researched a tiny
membrane in the back of our head known as the Reticular Activating System. The RAS primary function moves
us towards our dominant thought at that moment.

We naturally act on whatever we fill our minds with. Whatever preoccupies our thought, is what we eventually
want to act on. This explains why there are so many rapes after men continuously watch porn. Watching
constant violence explains why our young people between the ages of 12 and 24 often become violent
themselves.

By this time our youth become young adults they have seen, on average, more than 4,000 murders on TV, not
including violent video games. Studies have shown that the images we see impact our brains. For instance,
youth who have higher levels of exposure to violence, often have a reduction in cognitive function.

Therefore, the more violence they see, the less reasoned they become. In that, their minds lose a sense of
consequence for their behavior.

It's as if their minds have stored up destructive behavior, that's all they will know.

What we feed into the
Divine Matrix, is what is reflected back to us.

Fantasies are always more fulfilling than realities.

If you must work to justify a behavior, question your motives.

There does not appear to be a pure religion that can dictate for us
a moral right nor wrong. However, there are simple ethical lessons for
each of us to learn. If you are sexually aroused by children, simply stay
away from them!

Do not feed your monster even a handful, or it will soon eat your hand!


Porn-free
(HERE)

Pornography - Addicts (HERE)

Because so many young boys and girls are seduced by those who they should have been able to trust,
some of them then learn to become distrustful towards persons of the opposing sex, some respect for
themselves, while others begin using sex as a bribe to get what they desire. Those who are programed as sex
toys at a young age, often repeat the act as a means to feel the same empowerment.

Much like a man rapes a woman in order to feel self-empowered, sex becomes a manifestation of the possession
process.

As difficult as it may be for most to reckon with, it is highly probable that any act of aggression towards another  
is created by service-to-self 4D beings who reside in the octave just above our 3D realm of consciousness.
There is much information regarding this probability on my
Ancient Wisdom page (HERE)

If the material is telling us the truth, and I strongly believe it is, any acts of aggression towards others feeds these
thought forms (beings) the negative energies they require to remain in that octave, that is also called density. In
other words; They, because we turn our free-will over to them, they in turn become addicted to, thus feeding off
the negative energies much like a drunk takes a drink. Therefore, we become the co-dependents allowing their
addiction.

I personally don't care what you do with your own life, nor do I care what your sexual preference is, it's your
choice not mine to make . All I ask is that you stay in the closet and do not promote alternative lifestyles around
the kids, and I will honor your choice.

However, if you or a loved one have found yourself caught up in the homosexual lifestyle and would like to get
out, you can contact
Exodus - International (HERE)

They have a vast amount of resources to help you. It just does not have to feel this way. If you go to their
website you will discover caring and understanding people in your area to speak with. They are not judges, many
are recovering themselves.

And if you feel I may be able to help you, please do not hesitate to
Contact me
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