Sexual Addiction

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Pornography Addiction

All are perverts, those that claim otherwise, are also liars.

A recent survey performed on 1,000 professing Christian men and women
found that 50% of the men and 20% of the women surveyed were addicted
to pornography.

If you feel that you are able to control your viewing of porn, then take this
assessment to see who is controlling who  -  
Sexual Addiction Test (HERE)

Like any addiction, sex becomes the drug to relieve stress, to cut the edge
of emotional pain, often playing a self-nurturing role.

Like the self-mutilator who cuts the pain out, the true sex addict takes no
real pleasure in the actual sexual act, but rather feels great shame
afterwards, confusing lust with love the addiction becomes more heinous.

"Why do you think the Media is so important to us? You have (as a society), in your hypnotized
comatose state, given your Free Will consent to the state your planet is in today. You saturate your minds with
the unhealthy dishes served up for you on your televisions that you are addicted to, violence, pornography,
greed, hatred, selfishness, incessant 'bad news', fear and 'terror'.

When was the last time you stopped to think of something beautiful and pure? The planet is the way it is,
because of your collective thoughts about it. You are complicit in your inaction, every time you 'look the other
way' when you see an injustice. Your 'thought' at the sub-conscious level of creation to the Creator, is your
allowance of these things to occur. In so doing, you are serving our purpose.

It is very important to us, that the Polarization of this planet is Negative at the time of the Great Harvest. That
means Service to Self orientated, as opposed to Positive, Service to Others. We require a Negative Harvest,
(For their-self, not you!) and you are doing a fine job of helping us to attain our goal. We are very grateful." -
Hidden_Hand (A social memory complex)


By allowing the medias to bombard us with sexually explicit images, our group consciousness is becoming
seared. With the advent of the computer screen we now have a one way mirror to hide our-self behind.
Therefore,
cyber-sex has become an epidemic. Like rabid dogs, many have begun to lose their minds, throwing
ethical hygiene and caution to the wind.


Mind Management

"
We reap what we sow." Therefore, controlling the thoughts that lead to the desires should be one of our top
priorities. Our minds are like a computer, it only knows the data we feed it. Dr. Hans Selye researched a tiny
membrane in the back of our head known as the Reticular Activating System. The RAS primary function moves
us towards our dominant thought at that moment.

We naturally act on whatever we fill our minds with. Whatever preoccupies our thought is then what we
eventually want to act on. This explains why there are so many rapes after men continuously watch porn.
Watching constant violence explains why our young people between the ages of 12 and 24 often become violent
them-self.

By this time our youth become young adults they have seen, on average, more than 4,000 murders on TV, not
including violent video games. Studies have shown that the images we see impact our brains. For instance,
youth who have higher levels of exposure to violence, often have a reduction in cognitive function.

Therefore, the more violence they see, the less reasoned they become. In that, their minds lose a sense of
consequence for their behavior.

It's as if their minds have stored up destructive behavior, that's all they will know.

Fantasies are always more fulfilling than realities.

If you must work to justify a behavior, question your motives.


The Law of One & Sexual Energy:

"Questioner: I have a question that the instrument (communication translator) has asked me to ask. It reads: You
(Ra) speak of various types of energy blockages and transfers, positive and negative that may take place due to
participation in our sexual reproductive complex of actions. Could you please explain these blockages and
energy transfers with emphasis upon what an individual who is seeking to be in accordance with the Law of One
may positively do in this area? Is it possible for you to answer this question?
Ra: I am Ra.(a social memory complex that remains within our consciousness hoping to clear up the distortion it created in its
zeal to aid the people of Egypt many thousands of years in the past )
 Energy transfer (is) blocked only if one or both
entities have fear of possession or of being possessed, of desiring possession or desiring being possessed.

It shall be of interest at this point to note that there is always the possibility of using these opportunities
(sexual
energies)
to polarize towards the negative, and this has been aided by the gradual building up over many
thousands of your years of social complex distortions which create a tendency towards confusion, shall we say,
or baffling of the service to others aspect of this energy transfer and subsequent opportunities for service to
other selves.


Questioner: I was thinking more of the possibility of the Orion (service-to-self orientation known to most as “”Devil or
evil”)
group influencing certain members of the Third Reich who I have read reports of having sexual gratification
from the observation of the gassing and killing of entities in the gas chambers.
Ra: I am Ra. We shall repeat these entities had the potential for sexual energy buildup. The choice of stimulus is
certainly the choice of the entity. In the case of which you speak, these entities were strongly polarized orange
ray, thus finding the energy blockage of power over others, the putting to death being the ultimate power over
others; this then being expressed in a sexual manner, though solitary. In this case the desire would continue
unabated and be virtually unquenchable.

You will find, if you observe the entire spectrum of sexual practices among your peoples, that there are those
who experience such gratification from domination over others either from rape or from other means of
domination. In each case this is an example of energy blockage which is sexual in its nature.

The sexual energy transfers and blockages are more a manifestation or example of that which is more
fundamental than the other way about. Therefore, as your peoples became open to the concepts of bellicosity
and the greed of ownership, these various distortions then began to filter down through the tree of mind into
body complex expressions, the sexual expression being basic to that complex. Thus these sexual energy
blockages, though Orion influenced and intensified, are basically the product of the being-ness chosen freely by
your peoples."


The Law of One and the Homosexual Orientation;

"Questioner: We have what seems to be an increasing number of entities incarnate here now who have what is
called a homosexual orientation. Could you explain and expand upon that concept?
Ra: I am Ra. Entities of this condition experience a great deal of distortion due to the fact that they have
experienced many incarnations as biological male and as biological female. This would not suggest what you call
homosexuality in an active phase were it not for the difficult vibratory condition of your planetary sphere. There is
what you may call great aura infringement among your crowded urban areas in your more populous countries,
as you call portions of your planetary surface. Under these conditions the confusions will occur.

Questioner: Why does density of population create these confusions?
Ra: I am Ra. The bisexual reproductive urge has as its goal, not only the simple reproductive function, but more
especially the desire to serve others being awakened by this activity.

In an over-crowded situation where each mind/body/spirit complex is under constant bombardment from other-
selves it is understandable that those who are especially sensitive would not feel the desire to be of service to
otherselves. This would also increase the probability of a lack of desire or a blockage of the red ray reproductive
energy.

In an uncrowded atmosphere this same entity would, through the stimulus of feeling the solitude about it, then
have much more desire to seek out someone to whom it may be of service thus regularizing the sexual
reproductive function.

Questioner: Roughly how many previous incarnations would a male entity in this incarnation have had to have
had in the past as a female to have a highly homosexual orientation in this incarnation?
Ra: I am Ra. If an entity has had roughly 65% of its incarnations in the sexual/biological body complex, the
opposite polarity to its present body complex, this entity is vulnerable to infringement of your urban areas and
may perhaps become of what you call an homosexual nature.

It is to be noted at this juncture that although it is much more difficult, it is possible in this type of association for
an entity to be of great service to another in fidelity and sincere green ray love of a nonsexual nature thus
adjusting or lessening the distortions of its sexual impairment.

Questioner: Is there an imprint occurring on the DNA coding of an entity so that sexual biases are imprinted
due to early sexual experiences?
Ra: I am Ra. This is partially correct. Due to the nature of solitary sexual experiences, it is in most cases unlikely
that what you call masturbation has an imprinting effect upon later experiences.

This is similarly true with some of the encounters which might be seen as homosexual among those of this age
group. These are often, instead, innocent exercises in curiosity.

However, it is quite accurate that the first experience in which the mind/body/spirit complex is intensely involved
will indeed imprint upon the entity for that life experience a set of preferences.

Questioner: Does the Orion group use this as a gateway to impress upon entities preferences which could be
of a negative polarization?
Ra: I am Ra. Just as we of the Confederation attempt to beam our love and light whenever given the opportunity,
including sexual opportunities, so the Orion group will use an opportunity if it is negatively oriented or if the
individual is negatively oriented."


The Wave Series Transcripts and the Homosexual Orientation;

"Q: (J) Does the human state of sexuality, such as homosexuality, have something to do with changing sexes
from one lifetime (
incarnation) to another?
A: Sometimes.

Q: (L) When and why did homosexuality originate?
A: It originated when sexuality did."


Basically what the above is conveying without seeming to be judgmental of our free-will is that faithful
and respectable non-dominating sexual relationships are of the service-to-others orientation in its highest form,
therefore freeing these from much heart ache and negative karmic entanglements.

More on social memory complexes can be found on my Transcripts page
(HERE)

There does not appear to be a pure enough religion which can
dictate for us a moral right nor wrong. However, there are simple ethical
lessons for each of us to learn.

If you are sexually aroused by children, simply stay away from them!

Do not feed your inner monster even a handful, or it will soon eat your
hand!

As is with any form of addiction, it does not take free-will long to close the
gap between control and out-of-control behavior.

Because so many young boys and girls are seduced by those who they should have been able to trust,
some of them then learn to become distrustful towards persons of the opposing sex, some respect for their-self,
while others begin using sex as a bribe to get what they desire. Those who are programed as sex toys at an
early age often repeat the act as a means to feel the same empowerment.

Much like a man rapes a woman in order to feel self-empowered, sex becomes a manifestation of the possession
process.

I personally don't care what you do with your own life, nor do I care what your sexual preference is, it's your
choice not mine to make . All I ask is that you stay in the closet and do not promote alternative lifestyles around
the kids and I will honor your choice.

However, if you or a loved one have found yourself caught up in the homosexual lifestyle, would like to get out
and can overlook religious fanaticism you can contact
Exodus - International (HERE)

They have a vast amount of resources to help you. If you go to their website you will discover caring and
understanding people in your area to speak with. They are not all religious judges there, many are recovering
their-self.
Please read my Home Page before continuing
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